How To Strengthen Family Life : 9 Magnifcent Strategies For Happy Family

 

Family is the ultimate happiness of Human Life.Our blood relations and people whom we are married are undoubtedly our dearest allies.Even in today’s modern age,most of the youth all over the world dreams family as a source of  happiness,peace of head and heart and greatest success which according to all Philosophers,Psychologists and Psychiatrists  is absolutely true.

However such moments occur in the course of our life when a state of misunderstanding and mistrust prevails in life amongst the family.Family is a sphere of our life  where our  emotional memories are knitted and that is why emotional intelligence has proved to be the successful solution of our strained relations with family.

Emotional Intelligence helps you in making strong and joyful relations with your parents,siblings,children and in laws.Most of the strategies makes you aware and share and communicate your feelings to your loved ones.

Some successful strategies are discussed below to strengthen family life which will embrace your life with happiness and making your family bond stronger.

 

1-Take Care Of Yourself:

Take care of your health if you want to take care of others.You need to be physically healthy to take care of your family and your loved ones.Therefore develop a habbit of regular exercise.

2-Listen To Others Carefully:

Lack of communication may be the major cause of mistrusrt amongst families .Normal complaint is that why they do not listen to me and in such cases perhaps it may be true that they do not listen to them .So communication carries a great weightage into either repair or deterioration of relations.

3-Learn To Give:

Try to learn to give to others first if you want to receive from others which  means do good first and have good afterwards.

4-Emotional Choice:

Do not always be happy when everything is ok with you rather take care of emotions and behaviours of others as well.

5-Learn To Take Responsibility:

Very young and very old are very much sensitive to our tone and facial expressions instead of our voice.you will have to express through your expressions ,body language and sweet tone that you love them .

6-Do Not Be A Burden:

Do not always try to resolve problems of your loved ones .Let them solve their problems themselves and see what strengths they possess unless they ask  themselves for an advice or a solution.Give them a sense of freedom in their matters so that they could be able to differentiate between good and bad.

7-Accept Your Mistakes:

If you do a mistake,do not feel ashamed to say sorry.This will not be a cause of humility rather give an impression that you prefer to forgive instead of being forgiven first.Try to make an impression by your long  lasting actions instead of just talking about.

8-Explore The Needs Of Your Family:

You must try to understand that your young children and your parents needs different kinds of love .

9-Express Love: 

All your family memebers specially your children needs expression of love and specially those who do not show the need of your love.                                                                       

                                          

 

Strengthen Family Bonds:

You must keep in mind that your family has different individuals with different feelings,emotions and priorities.You will have to strengthen the bond of relations with multifacet characteristics of different family memebers.

a-Fanatastic Power Of Communication :

In today’s life ,husband and wife sitting on dinning table, having their mobiles in their hands and not giving quality time to each other, results in mistrust which is very much common in society these days.

Try to keep distractions like such gadgets away when you are sitting with your family.You know communication can do wonders for improving and strengthening your relations with your loved ones.Communication has such a great power which is speechless.

When you hear your loved ones, they consider that you give value to them which creates feeling of importance.Listening to your family members with care and love makes your relations stronger.

b-Share With Your Family:

You should try to have combined activities with your family like cooking together ,family games or sitting on a dinning table together will create everlasting memories.

c-Create A Balance Between Unity And Liberty:       

For a happy family ,it is imperative to have a balance between liberty and unity.It means to have RESPECT  for each other’s sentiments,feelings,actions,objectives and not to force them to adopt something forcefully according to your own wish and will.

Story:

The story of Thomson family .After a long span of tensions and work load ,they decided to have a trip leaving behind all distractions like mobile,laptop etc.They went to a hilly area to enjoy their trip but it was not out of problems as they have to face a rainy night and forgot to bring camping tent nails.

No doubt they had to suffer but it brought natural laughter, happiness and togetherness which was a dream in their life.When they returned home ,they felt their head and heart more peaceful and relaxed.

Story:

Consider Sarah and John married for more than seven years,Their relationship became strained because they always tried to follow one passion together.Finally they decided to follow a passion of their own choice.Sarah had a passion of writing and john tried to pursue hill hiking.After pursuit of their own passion, they felt a great happiness in their life.After personal growth they developed a feeling of energy relaxation in their life.

d-Physical Connection:

Physical relation whether hug,kissing or even holding hand of your partener  plays a vital role towards emotional and physical connection.These connection give value to your loved ones and make them feel blessed and elevated.

e-Emotional Connection:

Emotional connection is greatly important.Sharing your emotions ,joys,dreams,fears,and happiness with your partener enhances the trust level and strengthens the bond of love between couples and family.

Story;Absolute Power Of Simple Touch:

Vanisa and William were suffering from mistrust and misunderstanding in their married life getting them suffer from stress and discomfort.One night after exchange of harsh words,after a while he reached out and just hold Vanisa’s hand with emotions of love and forgiveness.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    This simple movement from the core of his heart got the ice melt and resulted into a deep revival of love .They shared their feelings and emotions and started a new happier life.

Conclusion:

To sum up,strengthening bond of Family Life is nothing short of a blessing as it results into a Happier and Haelthier Life.It is important to express feelings of value,respect and prestige with your emotions ,body language and facial expressions from the core of heart.

Inspite of this materialistic world,most of the youth prefers their parents,siblings,children and whom they are married.It is important to keep in mind that concrete steps are required to develop strong Family realations.

In the end there is nothing like a family for us.

Call To Action:

It is always difficult to take first step.Initiate your efforts towards strengthening your relations with your family.A strong Family relationship will embrace you with Happiness,joy,solace and peace of Head and Heart.